My mentally ill mom runs a home daycare and I live in constant fear of shit hitting the fan

2022.01.19 21:59 etherealsuns My mentally ill mom runs a home daycare and I live in constant fear of shit hitting the fan

Okay.. so my mom is very mentally ill. I mean she’s done some horrible, horrible things to my siblings and I. I have 5 older sisters and the stories they tell us of the terrible abuse they suffered under my mom and all her random men.. I know it to be true because I have been a victim of her physical, verbal, emotional, and sexual abuse (from her bfs). I am the youngest of 7. My brother and I are the two youngest and my sisters were all teenagers/young women by the time we came around. They have all moved incredibly far away from my mom. Even my dad left us when I was 8. His excuse being “If i stayed I would’ve drunk myself to death.”
Needless to say, this woman should not have children in her care. She’s always worked at daycares and her dream has always been to own her own facility. The house we lived in previously (for 13 years) was badly rotting and in terrible condition. It was rat and pest infested and everything in there felt filthy. The living conditions were so bad that my brother and I never invited company. I was so depressed living there through high school. Finally when the snow storm hit in texas last year, my mom revealed that she owned a new house in a close by neighborhood. She drove us there to stay until our power turned back on. I was so amazed but also felt so betrayed that she had kept this huge beautiful house from us for who knows how long. Meanwhile my brother, my niece and I lived with rats and filth everywhere. Well she finally broke and let us move into the new house. We were happy for a month or so.
Then my mom began taking care of kids. She started out with a few now she takes in around 20 something kids. She has her operating license but she shouldn’t. She treats these children like she treated us. She feeds them when she says so and if they don’t eat that’s it. She ignores them when they cry and she violently screams when they frustrate her. She’s run off multiple ladies that she pays to help her. No one wants to be involved with her. She is terrifying to deal with on a regular day, let alone caring for a small child. It is nerve racking. Every day I live in the fear that she’ll do something terrible and then we’re forced to go back to the old house because she’ll have no job or money. I’m 18 and have been trying to move out for so long. I only have 5k saved and the feeling of desperation is so strong every damn day. She asks me to help her watch the kids and it’s so infuriating. She’s left me with 6 toddlers and a newborn before. On my own…. She constantly takes off on trips to mexico to see her husband and she’ll leave us behind. Kids still show up and the ladies still show up as well. Even when she’s gone there is never a moment of peace. Half the time the ladies are under the impression that they can leave when me or my brother make it back home from work. Often times I am totally unaware of this. The ladies will even ask me questions about the kid’s names (YES NAMES) or how/when to do certain things and I have no answers for them. Why doesn’t my mom tell them before she takes off? We have no way to contact their parents in any situation and it’s just so anxiety filling. Its a losing situation for everyone. I’m at the end of my line here and I’m getting so desperate. She behaves like a teenager and I want to beat her ass every day. It’s so unhealthy here. I need options. I need help. I need a safe place.
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So I'm trying to write a story about a man who decides he needs to file for divorce after finding out his wife got pregnant with someone else's baby.
I've been looking up different laws and rules and all that, but ultimately I have no idea how to write this realistically. I can't imagine how difficult getting a divorce can be for you guys, and all I really know is that laws are generally not in your favor. I want it to be as authentic as possible, no matter how horrifying the truth ends up being.
Some extra info about said man: he has no kids, before the third marriage, roughly the length of a year and a half, he'd had a vasectomy and during marriage he tried to reverse it but the reversal failed. I tried to think of as many ways to make it as least of a complicated divorce as possible, like separate bank accounts and the wife's parents owning the house and the like. I'm looking for general experiences and advice that I can use as I haven't decided whether I'm going to put the story in a specific real world location or some sort of similar fictional one.
Anything helps! Thanks to anyone who reads and replies. Hope you get the best possible outcome in your situation.
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